It’s Narcissist Friday!
I’m sorry you were hurt.
I’m sorry you thought you heard that.
I’m sorry you misunderstood.
I’m sorry ___ made me fail.
I’m sorry you feel that way.
I’m sorry that happened.
I didn’t do that. I’m sorry you think I did.
I apologize for trying.
I apologize for caring.
I apologize for being human.
I apologize for being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Recognize these? They’re apologies. What? You don’t think they’re apologies? What’s wrong with them? These are typical narcissistic apologies. Some people have heard this kind of apology all their lives. Others have heard these apologies almost their whole marriages.
And then you hear, “Well, I apologized, didn’t I?” Uh, actually, no.
There are two meanings to the word “apology” in English. The most common is a confession of guilt and an expression of regret. That’s the one we look for. …
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